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May has been a whirlwind.

My birthday, my best friends’ law school graduation and the kickoff of summer has left me feeling optimistic about the season ahead. It’s finally time to be outside and I refuse to be ashy or flaky this summer.

As summer is rounding the corner, so have my beauty priorities. Sweat, sun and SPF are changing how I treat my skin. Instead of heavy body butters and lotions, I want my skin to feel hydrated and nourished—not dry or too slick.

In the words of my mom, I don’t want to look like my face is oily enough to fry fish.

This means adjusting my routine to use products that can create that glowing, sunkissed look that doesn’t feel oil-slick. Good skincare is year-round, but summer skin has a once-in-a-season glow that you can’t miss.

Here’s what I’m using and what’s on my skin glow wishlist.

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Before achieving that luminous glow, you’ll need a solid base to start with a.k.a clean skin. That begins with a quality cleanser that can remove dirt, sweat and makeup without irritating the skin.

I use the La Roche-Posay Toleriane Purifying Facial Cleanser to wash off those impurities, and it’s a favorite. For the rest of my body, Naturium’s Glycolic Acid Body Wash helps cleanse the skin and lighten the stubborn hyperpigmentation on my body. After a few uses, my skin feels significantly smoother, too.

After cleansing, exfoliation is a must. Good news: you have options: chemical and physical exfoliants.

A chemical exfoliant uses chemicals—like Alpha Hydroxy Acids (AHAs), Beta Hydroxy Acids (BHAs) or Polyhydroxy Acids (PHAs)—to remove dead skin cells. This helps lighten and soften your skin for a better base. AHAs are water-soluble, great for fine lines, discoloration and enlarged pores. BHAs are great oil-soluble, great for acne, sun-damaged skin and fine lines, too. PHAs are an alternative to both, best for sensitive skin.

Murad has an AHA/BHA Exfoliating Cleanser that both cleanses and exfoliates.

A physical exfoliant is an exfoliator that manually removes dead skin cells using ingredients like sugars, powders or brushes. I stick to the basics like Tree Hut’s body scrub. Dermalogica is a must-have for facial exfoliator too; it leaves my skin feeling baby-bottom smooth after each use.

My Summer Glow Recs for Cleansing and Exfoliation:

1. Naturium The Smoother Glycolic Acid Body Wash, $17

2. La Roche-Posay Toleriane Purifying Facial Cleanser, $20

3. Murad AHA/BHA Exfoliating Cleanser, $37

4. Tree Hut Coco Colada Body Scrub, $12

5. Dermalogica Daily Microfoliant Exfoliator, $49

After your skin has been cleansed and exfoliated, replenish it with a moisturizer or hydrator. And no, they’re not the same thing.

A hydrator adds hydration—water—to your skin. A moisturizer seals in that moisture so your skin can retain it throughout the day.

So do you need both?

Not necessarily. According to Healthline, most hydrators and moisturizers contain similar ingredients. But if you have dry skin, try a moisturizer to lock in that hydration. If you have oily skin, use a water-based moisturizer so your skin doesn’t overproduce oil.

With both water and glycerin, natural hydrators, Neutrogena’s Hydro Boost moisturizer is a great hydrator. I also love Good Molecule’s moisturizer to lock in moisture; it’s thick yet feels lightweight on my skin.

To secure moisture for the rest of my body, I use Olay. It’s become a fan-favorite in my household for its hydration, scent and low price point. (It’s only $11!) Hyaluronic acid, which boosts skin elasticity, is also an active ingredient, so it’s improving my skin barrier day by day.

My Summer Glow Recs for Hydration and Moisturization:

6. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Water Gel, $22

7. Good Molecules Lightweight Daily Moisturizer, $12

8. Olay Body Lotion, $11

Time to add the glow (and sun protection) factor.

Glowing skin is the result of hydration, creating an appearance of a glass-like glow. For that glow, I use Tree Hut’s Firming Body Oil for a smell-good, feel-good shine to my skin. But if you’re willing to go deeper in your pockets, Moroccanoil has a body oil that provides both hydration and shimmer.

When I’m not wearing makeup, I round out my skincare routine with Black Girl Sunscreen for the SPF and the glass-skin look it gives me afterwards. With makeup, I add the sunscreen and top off my makeup with Juvia’s Place loose highlighter to accentuate the high points of my face. To make sure my lips are also shiny as everything else, I apply Essence’s lip gloss for maximal shine. Even better, it’s minimal stickiness.

My Summer Glow Recs for Sunscreen and Body Oils:

9. Tree Hut Firming Body Oil, $13

10. Moroccanoil Shimmering Body Oil, $50

11. Black Girl Sunscreen Moisturizing Sunscreen Lotion SPF 30, $17

12. Essence Extreme Shine Volume Lipgloss, $4

There’s something about 70-degree weather that brings out the best in me. I’m no longer cozying up to a book or Living Single reruns at 11 p.m.; I’m outside in a full beat sipping a margarita and eating sushi at a rooftop bar. If this sounds oddly specific, it’s because it happened this past weekend.

So imagine my pure joy as I confirmed my week-long stay at a hotel—with a pool—for my friends graduation and my birthday. Aside from daydreaming about potential outfits, I was thinking of ways to explore color, silhouette and texture in my swimwear. Though I’m not doing full laps around the pool, my outfit has to do full laps around everyone else.

Working in fashion journalism during the springtime means an inundation of swimsuit styling roundups. Bridal party looks. Under $50 options. The trendy summer edit. So, I suppose this is my attempt at curating a somewhat unique take on my favorite swimsuit styles this season.

I’m thinking odes to southern delicacies, classic color combinations and western-themed pairings. This ain’t your momma’s favorite swimsuits; it’s all about embracing flair.

If you’re into that as much as I am then shop of these swimsuit styles and accessories below.

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Spring isn’t just for florals. It’s for coordinating colors. An underrated combination I’ve been obsessed with is purple and green. It’s one of those pairings that seems off-kilter but the right shades together are sweeeet harmony. Think your favorite glass of wine with a house salad. Decadent yet refreshing.

A BFyne swimsuit is high on my summer swimwear wishlist for many reasons, the main one being for its use of bold colors. The company’s, citing influences from nature and African culture, motif of rich tones paired with dynamic patterns makes this a top contender for me.

Pairing this two-piece with a matcha green bag from Akira gives me the contrast and color I’m looking for this season. Out with monotony, in with duality.

How I’m Wearing This Swimsuit

• BFyne Annyta swimsuit — $269

• Akira Summer Time Baby Bag — $56

• Tracieshoes Mesh Mule Kitten Heels — $54

• Aurameo Tatti Earrings — $98

Raffia is my favorite texture this season, though it might be due to overexposure.

I wasn’t a fan of the rustic, almost-unpolished look initially, but the right colors and patterns paired with it have changed my mind. When worn with a two-piece set from Bydee, it can look tastefully vintage and unabashedly western.

Bydee is a new swimwear brand on my radar—though founded in 2013—but it’s quickly swept me off my feet with its maximalist prints. The shop draws inspiration from international travel and the founder’s Mediterranean roots, but for this styling, I’m all about the homegrown aesthetics. Think cowboy hats, fringe and raffia to elevate this look even more.

How I’m Wearing This Swimsuit

• Bydee Palermo Bikini Top — $89

• Bydee Cyprus Bottoms — $89

• San Diego Hat Crocheted Raffia Cowboy Hat — $80

• Mango Pouch — $60

• H&M Fringe-trimmed Sarong — $40

The butter yellow trend is getting a face lift, but not in the way you’d think.

Instead of pairing this popular pastel shade with other spring colors, I’m opting for an autumnal feel à la apple pie. Golden sunglasses from Lorvae and candy apple red shoes from ASOS pair exceptionally to create a look reminiscent of my favorite fall dessert. It’s warm. It’s vibrant. It’s rich.

F.Y.I. The Polo Ralph Lauren swimsuit is a basic piece, not a statement piece, so let the accessories do the talking.

How I’m Wearing This Swimsuit

Polo Ralph Lauren Martinique One-Piece Swimsuit — $120

Lorvae Spotlight sunglasses — $75

MISSGUIDED Bohemian Fishnet Cover Up Top — $10

ASOS Design Nila wedges — $70

A timeless aesthetic combined with modern touches means an artfully understated look.

For this classic nautical theme, I wanted to embrace stripes in all forms—both vertical and horizontal as complementary patterns to each other. The classic one piece from Lauren Ralph Lauren, a more budget-friendly option for Ralph Lauren fans, is another basic piece that can be enhanced by any accessory. Including a pair of novelty lobster earrings.

For an even chicer look, tie around a printed scarf around your neck or wrap it around your head for a vintage vibe.

How I’m Wearing This Swimsuit

• Lauren Ralph Lauren Seaside Stripe One Piece Swimsuit — $155

• Mango satin scarf — $23

• Gap Logo Tote Bag — $60

• Boden Novelty Beaded Earrings — $79

In a week, two of my best friends will graduate law school.

They’ve attended the same university, walked the same yard and likely had the same professors, yet they have vastly different interests, passions and personalities.

One is a type-A girl with a Bible verse to share at any moment and an innumerable amount of Sims 4 custom content. She’s by-the-book and a gaming-enthusiast. The other? A type-B guy with the music taste to rival any DJ’s crate. He’s also my point-of-contact for breaking down international affairs.

All that to say: getting both a card is simply not enough for me. It’s way too unimaginative.

Ahead of their hooding ceremony, I’ve put a lot of thought (maybe too much thought?) into what would be the best graduation gift for their current and promised life.

As the friend with the “cool fashion and shopping job”, I’ve spent hours researching grad gifts and what truly makes the perfect present stand out and stand the test of time.

The formula is simple: thought, creativity and utility.

• Thought: Did you actually think about what they want or need?

• Creativity: How unique is the gift?

• Utility: Can they use it now or in the near future? Does it fill an unfulfilled need?

If you have these three things, then you’ve got a gift worth remembering.

Shop some of my favorite graduation gifts for every type of friend below.

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A classic pen and paper are far more valuable to the Analog Lover than an iPad could ever be. With a stationery set to match Toni Morrison, quality materials are a main priority for their writing, researching and note taking. Your graduate is the typical type-A personality: a meticulous planner, competitive and extremely detail-oriented. The perfect gift for them must keep up with their lifestyle.

Uniball Jetstream 101 Ballpoint Pens, 12 Pack — $23

Okay, pens as a gift is a bit trite, but here’s the thought: classic gel pens and classic oil pens serve different purposes. While gel pens may be good for everyday writing, oil-based pens are for those who write faster than their thoughts.

I love gel pens for journaling, but oil-based pens like the Uniball brand are smear-proof, ideal for translucent notes, sticky tabs and highlighting handwritten notes. No smudges, no messy notes.

Cloth & Paper Notepad Folio — $25

Whether your graduate is a future architect or a prodding journalist-to-be, a notebook is a staple for handwritten notes and sketches. Both durable and neutral enough to pair with any stationery set, Cloth & Paper’s notepad folio can fit in both a backpack (for post-grad students) and a tote bag (for working-class people). It’s a gift worth every cent.

Also known as your unemployed friend who somehow is in Barcelona on a random Tuesday. For the graduate who loves to travel, get them something both practical and useful for their spontaneous trips. Think beyond neck pillows or eye masks and look at the pain points many travelers have. That’s where the most underrated presents lie.

Think Roylin Travel Trio Organizational Pouches — $78

Make airport trips fun with a statement pouch that doubles as an on-the-go clutch. There’s something unique about multifunctional travel wear. On Tuesday, you could be in Barcelona with cash, mints and lipgloss in your pouch and on Thursday, you could be back at the airport with your passport, ID and boarding pass. The pouch operates as a home for both.

Uber Gift Card — Price Varies

Arriving at the airport, sliding through TSA and finding your way to your gate is one thing, but getting a ride back to a hotel or home is another. Skip the headache of waving a taxi or looking for the cheapest lift and go for an Uber gift card instead. Though a simple gift, it’s one of those obvious treats that any traveling graduate will appreciate.

Whether your person has graduated from cosmetology school or they’re just a wiz at makeup, cosmetic gifts can be hard to shop for. Foundation shades are not created equally, skincare is a fluctuant gift for those with sensitive skin and the likelihood you know their undertone is slim. Keep things cute but creative with these ideas.

Making Faces by Kevyn Aucoin — $30

Aucoin, the celebrity makeup-artist known for popularizing contouring, used makeup techniques that are still common today… 30 years ago. His skill has transcended decades, trends and even the social media age. If you’ve seen Janet Jackson, Naomi Campbell or Whitney Houston with a face sculpted and angled to a T, then you’ve seen his work.

The 1997 book “Making Faces” details just how you can recreate some of his most iconic looks. For the beauty aficionado, this is an essential beauty book. For the interior designer, this also makes a great coffee tablen staple.

Forvr Mood Travel Vanity Bag — $45

I’m a firm believer that every beauty product needs a home, especially for on-the-go runs and quick trips. Forvr Mood’s mini vanity bag holds your travel-sized makeup faves, like single-eyeshadow palettes, mini perfumes and a set of lashes. It’s quick, it’s cute, it’s a must have.

Everyone knows one. They’re always tracking their steps, counting their calories and focusing on how much protein they intake each day. Scouting for gifts for the wellness guru requires some thought. Luckily, it’s easier to scout gifts for them because they’re always focused on one major thing: being well.

Apple Watch SE 3 — $239

As someone who just purchased her first Apple Watch—and has three months free of Apple Fitness—I can say it’s a worthy buy. My health and wellness journey feels fun, interactive and compatible to my lifestyle. I finally look forward to working out.

For the wellness graduates, the Apple Watch is an essential purchase. You can fully detect your sleep patterns, heart rate and your workouts all in one device. My favorite feature is how my Apple watch automatically starts my workout playlist when I begin an exercise.

BlenderBottle Sport Shaker Cup — $30

Protein babes, rejoice! Making smoothies and shakes has gotten easier with the BlenderBottle Shaker Cup. For the graduate who loves eating healthy but hates the hassle of cleaning a blender, this bottle can hold just about any liquid without leaking and is easy to clean. Take it on a commute, to the park and anywhere where you can get your steps in.

Last summer, I met up with an old friend at a Latin-American restaurant downtown. The spot has a rooftop deck and some of the best cocktails in my city. It was the first time I had a classic mojito, and one of the first times I realized my cocktail said as much about me as my handbag (a black shoulder bag). Classic and safe.

In many ways, a drink is an accessory. Walk with me.

Your signature cocktail, like your signature bag, not only tells me what you like but it tells me your lifestyle choices and your overall taste. The Brooklyn babes sporting the Puma Speedcat ballet sneakers may not be the ones nursing a Budweiser Long Neck.

Bags and cocktails speak the same language and tell a similar story.

My medium drab Telfar saw me through summers interning at the Times and nursing iced matcha lattes while my Forever 21 white shoulder bag saw me through several D.C. brunches (and several mimosas) during undergrad. Different bags, different drinks, similar stories of me enjoying my youth.

One of my continuing resolutions for the year is to have better style. This means more than an abundance of clothing though; it’s being in tune with what fits me, what feels good and what fabrics settle best on my skin. Accessories are a part of that too.

Though Gen Z is drinking less alcohol—about 20% less than millennials—and focusing more on health, I’m a woman who indulges in the best of both worlds. And as the summer months creep up, my world is all about finding a bag that matches my cocktail.

Shop some of my favorite bags, clutches and totes, paired with the sips that suit them best.

The espresso martini, a blend of espresso, vodka, simple syrup and coffee liqueur, is my go-to when I want to feel cheeky yet pretentious next to my Buzzball-sipping friends.

This cocktail is for those with a Zora Neale Hurston book in one hand and a sleek handbag in the other. You love whatever’s muted, understated but impressive enough to catch anyone’s eye. Rich, earthy tones and flavors are your go-to, and of course, you go for this martini on a night out. The stronger, the better.

It makes sense to pair this signature drink with the Alter/Ego shoulder bag—a purse crafted from the scraps of the viral Brooklyn bag. It’s sustainable, large and suited for an on-the-go life. Late night sips, early morning meetings and impromptu coffee runs.

Fitting a 15-inch laptop, a passport and a plethora of trinkets, this bag is as chic and strong as the classic espresso martini.

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• Verafied Mini Gold Chocolate Hobo Bag — $198

• Old Navy East West Saddle Bag — $35

• The Horse Mini Clementine Bag — $230

• Madewell The Dakota Calf Hair Saddle Bag — $158

• ASOS Glamorous woven shoulder bag — $49

Eccentric, eclectic, excited. No matter how you put it, you like to be loud, at least sartorially.

Every item in your closet is a statement piece, and you know how to pull it all together without looking tawdry. The color wheel is your north star when crafting a good outfit. You value quality as much as you value individuality which is why you love the paloma, a blend of tequila, lime juice and grapefruit soda.

The JW Pei Bria top handle bag has the color and structure you’re looking for. This bag isn’t for the on-the-go types but the ones who value a good drink and a good time without the burden of work. Fitting an iPhone 16 Pro Max and smaller, this purse operates more as a clutch. Little commitment, lots of fun.

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• Mlouye Sera Mia Bag — $645

• Betsey Johnson Faces Shoulder Bag — $98

• Diesel 1DR-Iconic Shoulder Bag — $495

• Kurt Geiger London Extra Mini Colorblock Clutch — $195

• Anthropologie The Love Knot Slouchy Bag — $98

Why go for Carrie Bradshaw when you could be Khadijah James—the main character in the 90s sitcom Living Single? She has the writing chops and tenacity of Carrie without her palm-in-the-face moments. If anything, Khadijah runs the men and her publication “Flavor” with a level of fluidity I admire.

If you’re like Khadijah, then you’re resolute but know when to set the paperwork down and pick up a cocktail. And nothing says structure meets pleasure like a Brandon Blackwood bag.

The Arlen bag is a blend of the The Sophisticated Bunch and The Eccentric Soul’s tastes: fun, sophisticated and luxe. Pair this (or any other jewel-toned bag) with a blueberry lavender mojito, a modern twist on the classic drink.

This purple suede bag is tiny but mighty. Opt for this purse on nights out when you have little to carry.

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• Brandon Blackwood Victoria Clutch — $275

• Thirty Years Jelly Clear Tote — $64

• Staud Moon Bag — $350

• Telfar Small Telfar Duffle — $155

• Cuyana Ola Bag — $498

The go-getter is in and out. Like an off-duty model, you prioritize simple clothing with statement pieces to create simple outfit, and you don’t overstay your welcome.

You never try too hard, and that’s why your closet is full of investment pieces. Fitted black tops, tailored suits and silk gowns that drift on your skin effortlessly.

A matcha martini might seem a bit strange for a signature cocktail, but the go-getter prioritizes new experiences and flavors. Like the espresso martini sippers, you embrace the earthy and minimal aspects of style. Nothing says you more than Calvin Klein’s bucket bag. No organizer needed for this purse. Just gloss, an ID and your Amex. Nights out with you are a rare and special occasion and should be treated as such.

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Steve Madden Lohan Bag — $84

True Religion Horseshoe Mini Handbag — $84

ASOS Design high shine flap shoulder bag — $48

Coach Lana Shoulder Bag 23 — $395

Jeffrey Campbell Night Out Leather Shoulder Bag — $295

In between working on bulletin boards for the church and watching me, my grandma would take me to the nail salon for her monthly manicures. I was young enough to need supervision but old enough to know nail days were an essential beauty ritual.

It was an honor to witness the magic within a nail technician’s hands.

Sitting at the edge of the leather seats, I would gaze at those rows of O.P.I nail polishes on the walls, the smell of monomer embedded into the air. For a child as girly as I was, this was heaven on earth.

Fast forward to the Snapchat-era when high school upperclassmen posted sparkly videos of their coffin-shaped nails to the newest Ella Mai song. Chunky glitter and neon polish was the mood for that era.

Then something shifted.

More french tips. Funny bunny nails. White toes.

I love minimalism, and there’s always a time and place for simple manicures—mainly when I don’t feel like doing anything extravagant. But in this stripped-back, barely-there era of beauty, it feels like fun nails are not in vogue.

As someone who does her own nails, I take pride in having unique nails and even greater pride in being my own nail tech.

The post-pandemic era of beauty has prioritized a more minimal approach to beauty, but nothing beats stiletto nails embellished with chunky pearls and charms.

Intentional curation is the ingredient to crafting fun, maximalist manicures. We all know black and white pair well, but who knows how to blend burnt orange and cool blue to create a desert chic look?

An eye for design matters.

In 2026, manicures are returning back to color and longer lengths—hello sherbert tones—but we can take this a step further with a return to funky designs, 3D patterns and elevated french tips with a twist.

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Ombré is one of my favorite ways to embrace dimension into my nail routine. It’s versatile and an easy elevation for regular manicures.

I recreated aura/gradient nails using blooming gel and nail sponges, but the best and most seamless look for ombré nails is with an airbrush. Though it looks complicated, I’ve been watching how nail artists use it, and it’s not as intimidating as it looks. All it takes is acetone and your gel nail polish of choice. I prefer JODSONE’s brand since it’s inexpensive and comes in an array of colors.

GET THE TOOLS:

Crpen Airbrush Kit — $21

JODSONE Gel Nail Polish Set — $20

Onyx Professional Pure Acetone Nail Polish Remover — $5

Cynthia Erivo gave me inspo for detailed nails during the Wicked press run in 2025, and I’m running with it in 2026.

3D nails have been undoubtedly the most time-consuming part of my nail routine. The steady hands, the details and the time spent creating flowers for one pinky is enough to send me into a spiral. Instead, I stick to long, curved lines across the nails or even little “bubbles” for the three dimensional vibe.

Note: there’s a difference between solid builder gel and sculpted painting gel. The sculpted gel is best for shell-type designs and anything that requires more movement in your nail art. The builder gel is solid and for structured, more intricate designs like flowers.

GET THE TOOLS:

Makartt 3D Gel Nail Art — $10

SAVILAND Solid Builder Nail Gel — $10

French manicures are classic, but they don’t have to be basic. Something about chrome and silver is oh-so-timeless and the perfect addition to spruce up a set of frenchies. It’s the bridge between the traditionalist and the modernist look.

If you’re not one to experiment too much or you want to dip your toes into a more unconventional method of french tips, I think this will serve you best. If you’re like me—too scared to get into chrome powders—opt for silver nail charms to give your manis a face lift.

GET THE TOOLS:

BELLEBOOST Silver and Gold Nail Charms and Gems — $6

Double Rhythm Translucent Gel Polish — $7

Artdone 16 Jars Chrome Nail Powder — $12

When I think of sexuality and quiet confidence, I think of “The Velvet Rope” by Janet Jackson. Cherry red hair. Latex that clings like a second skin. Bold textures. Cashmere-soft vocals crooning over a Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis beat.

Janet Jackson was, and still is, the moment.

“The Velvet Rope,” the 1997 R&B album, finds Jackson at a crossroads. One side of the road is her pursuit and longing for a lover, both emotionally and physically. The other side provokes the listener to look beyond a proverbial velvet rope: this inherent need to feel desired by others. She confronted the parts of humanity that felt too taboo, from the HIV/AIDS epidemic to abusive partners to bisexuality.

It’s personal, provocative and Jackson’s magnum opus.

The album’s sonic and visual fingerprint still lingers within artists like Aaliyah, Britney Spears, Tinashe and more.

From African-inspired motifs to subtle gothic aesthetics, Jackson pushed the boundaries on what desire and rebellion looked like in the 90s. She balanced feminine and masculine attire through her structured tailoring, latex bodysuits and a lot of midriff. Wayne Scot Lukas, Jackson’s close friend and stylist, was the main executor of these looks.

She wore her sexuality on her sleeve, both metaphorically and literally.

Welcome to A-List Attire, a new series where I delve into the stylistic attributes of our favorite creatives and show how you can incorporate their style into your wardrobe.

I have a strong affinity for celebrities with great style—from Rihanna in her iconic Swarovski-embellished dress to Carrie Bradshaw strutting down Manhattan in a Dior slip dress. A-List Attire reframes celebrity style and makes it accessible to you.

And who better to dig into than Janet Jackson?

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Silk married with structured tailoring was a paradigm look for Jackson during “The Velvet Rope” era. And it still works well.

The top, a fitted blazer with padded shoulders, is angular, masculine and serious. The bottom? Feminine and flowing. It’s a look that stands out in and outside of an office.

If you’re in the workforce, this is an easy add to your wardrobe. Pair a waist-cinching blazer with a silky pair of trousers for a similar texture. Keep jewelry minimal though, instead adding a set of clogs or platform loafers to top the look off.

Alternative aesthetics were popular in the 90s, and Jackson was an underrated figure in that movement. Though they’re common now, facial piercings, tattoos and overall body modifications were still taboo. She still embraced it all, even a silver septum piercing, with plunging necklines and midriff.

A mildly risqué look means a maximalist, floral-print shirt is your centerpiece. Similar to many of Jackson’s off-duty looks during this era, a pair of baggy black pants will complement this. Chunky rings are also a must.

Leather jackets are a seasonal transition staple and can elevate even the most basic outfits. The hidden ingredient is in how you accessorize it.

One thing I love about Jackson during “The Velvet Rope” era is how she’s lowkey an outfit repeater. The army green cargo pants she’s wearing are identical to the ones she sports in the “Together Again” music video.

This is a sign to bring out some old statement pieces, like a fringe collar necklace, for some juxtaposition against the leather jacket and cargo pants. A set of chunky boots will elevate it even more.

Lyrically, Jackson strips back the layers to expose a more introspective side of herself. It, of course, bleeds into her visuals.

This is one of those outfits I love but know there’s no occasion where I would wear a feathered vest with a lacy bra. So instead of baring it all, try incorporating jeans with feathered detailing for that added texture. If you want to go all out, a loose-fitting silk shirt will also pair well with these pants.

A quintessential 90s outfit with the chunky boot, this look feels both nostalgic and right on time.

An oversized blazer is a staple. Combine this with some Dr. Martens or chunky boots and a corset for that quintessential blend of masculine and feminine textures and looks.

“The Velvet Rope” era was all about restricted colorways, bold accents and a sense of futurism. Vulnerability meets seduction meets confrontation.

What’s minimal in color is maximal in print.

I’m a big fan of thrifting pieces like this Intempo jacket or finding other, more structured pieces from a retailer like ThredUp. Zip down the jacket and lace up a pair of stiletto heels for a modern version of a night-out look.

Notice the similar silk skirt from Janet’s album listening party? I love seeing how Jackson repurposed pieces to give her outfits a different vibe for each event she attended. You can, too.

The original outfit worn at the 1997 VMAs went for $3,840 at auction, but luckily you can replicate this with a velvet red collared shirt and a floor-length skirt. A leopard-print bucket bag will be the cherry on top of this timeless outfit, too.

Almost nothing makes me happier than an Ulta Beauty.

My love for them is boundless—so abundant that my debit card sees their checkout page before it sees my student loan payments. Sorry Sallie Mae.

So imagine my delight when I discovered Ulta Beauty has a 21 Days of Beauty sale.

For shopping fiends like myself, it’s a shopping event akin to Black Friday and Amazon Prime Day: the optimal time to refill your empties and splurge on deals you wouldn’t normally indulge in.

As an avid Ulta Beauty buyer, with the Rewards Points to verify it, an event this big calls for a glimpse into what’s on sale. Now is your chance to restock your favorite beauty and skincare products.

Here’s everything you need to know.

WHAT IS ULTA BEAUTY’S 21 DAYS OF BEAUTY?

The 21 Days of Beauty event is a multi-day, biannual sale where selected products are marked half off each day. That’s right. 50% off on your favorite beauty items.

HOW LONG WILL THE SALE LAST?

From March 6 until March 26, the retailer will have a different set of markdowns for the 21 Days of Beauty. What’s half off on Monday won’t be half off on Tuesday. You can check which items are, and will be, discounted on their website.

WHAT’S ON SALE?

Nearly everything! From Juvia’s Place blushes to Olaplex conditioners, look for your favorite makeup, skincare, body care and hair care products to be marked down.

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Kaja Beauty Bento Stacked Eyeshadow Trio

• Original Price: $28

• Why Buy?: Several color palettes + compact packaging = the perfect impromptu looks in between events.

Pete & Pedro Curl Defining Cream + Other Select Products

• Original Price: $22

• Why Buy?: Taming flyaways for wavy and curly hair has never been easier with this cream.

Oak Essentials Perfecting Body Scrub

• Original Price: $44

• Why Buy?: To keep skin polished and buffed without irritation.

Design Essentials Almond & Avocado Moisturizing & Detangling Conditioner + Other Products

*THE TOP SHELF APPROVED

• Original Price: Varies

• Why Buy?: It’s a personal favorite to keep my hair smooth, healthy and smelling delicious. I also recommend the Almond & Avocado Curl Enhancing Mousse.

  T3 Aire IQ Intelligent Hair Dryer

• Original Price: $399

• Why Buy?: From fine hair to coarse curls, this quick-drying blow dryer can make your hair voluminous and silky no matter the texture.

  NUDESTIX All Over Face Bronze Color

• Original Price: $37

• Why Buy?: For the minimalist makeup guru, this is the all-in-one product for cheeks, lips and eyes.

Supergoop! Glow Gloss SPF 40 Lip Balm

• Original Price: $22

• Why Buy?: An all-shine, non-tacky option for lip gloss lovers. The SPF 40 is a major plus.

Too Faced Born This Way Mini Eye Shadow Palettes

• Original Price: $29

• Why Buy?: A universal nude palette that gives your eyes depth, glimmer and drama is a makeup staple.

Pattern Curl Mousse + Other Select Products

• Original Price: $25

• Why Buy?: Curly-hair types with looser textures who want that Tracee Ellis-Ross look without the crunch of heavy mousses need this.

Juvia’s Place Blushed Duo + Other Select Products

*THE TOP SHELF APPROVED

• Original Price: $20

• Why Buy?: Pigment, pigment, pigment! One of these blushes will outlast you and the generations after you.

Ethique Beauty Curl-Defining Solid Conditioner Bar + Other Select Products

• Original Price: $14

• Why Buy?: Another curly girl want. No more slamming the bottom of your conditioner to get the last drops. Reviewers say this curl-enhancing conditioner can last up to six months with frequent usage (about two to three times a week).

Murad AHA/BHA Exfoliating Cleanser

• Original Price: $37

• Why Buy?: Though a bit too strong for dry skin—opt for Cetaphil’s Gentle Exfoliating SA Cleanser instead—it’s perfect for oily skin types who want tighter pores and smoother skin.

Gucci Bloom Eau de Toilette

• Original Price: $141

• Why Buy?: Spring warrants a refreshing fragrance for the warm months. Notes of jasmine and tuberose, a warm but intense floral scent, gives just that.

Stila Liqua-Play Eye Shadow

• Original Price: $25

• Why Buy?: From mauve to cornflower blue, which is now in this spring, liquid eyeshadows are great for artfully messy eyeshadow looks.

Nioxin Scalp + Hair Thickening System 3 Kit (Trial Size) + Other Select Items

• Original Price: $38

• Why Buy?: Bleached babes and recovering hair-dying addicts will rejoice in a product that aims to restore the fullness of your locks (and actually does it)!

Too Faced Cloud Crush Blurring Powder Blush

• Original Price: $32

• Why Buy?: Want to recreate Sabrina Carpenter’s doll-like makeup? This blush is a great powder supplement for Saie’s Dew Liquid Blush—what Carpenter’s makeup artist Carolina Gonzalez uses.

Uni 24-Hour Hydrating Body Serum

• Original Price: $43

• Why Buy?: It’s one of those one-and-done body care products with lasting results. Smooth, silky skin plus a serum that hydrates, brightens and tones? Count me in.

SeoulCeuticals Korean Skin Care Dark Spot Routine + Other Select Products

• Original Price: $54

• Why Buy?: A skincare set for dark spots and acne scars, without feeling greasy, is must-buy.

Estée Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place 24-Hour Concealer

• Original Price: $38

• Why Buy?: A full coverage concealer is an obvious want but one that lasts all day and has more product is a need.

Billie Eilish Eilish Eau de Parfum

• Original Price: $82

• Why Buy?: It’s an essential fragrance for gourmand lovers.

Olaplex No.5L Moisturize & Mend Leave-In Conditioner

• Original Price: $34

• Why Buy?: Olaplex’s conditioner promises to seal split ends—which is debatable—but at least it leaves you with silkier, smoother hair.

In the words of Kali Uchis, I know what I want.

Thong sandals. Barrel leg jeans. Intrecciato handbags. Colorful crocheted skirts. And XXL nails that rival the works of Jenny Bui—Cardi B’s nail artist. Call me dramatic, but knowing what I want and why I want it is an advantage within the world of shopping.

In 2026, monoculture is dead and microtrends reign supreme. Our attention is now divided between legacy publications and the innumerable influencers declaring which aesthetic is in. Consequently, little room is left for creative intelligence, personal style and emotional expression.

This week, 90s-era minimalism is the new “chic,” (à la Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy). Next week, a new trend will arrive with a closet full of appealing new clothing and leave with a quiet exit and a forgotten hashtag.

But I’ve discovered there’s a privilege in having a personal style that’s unwavering against this cult-like era of shopping. Trends are volatile but style is forever mutable.

Developing a personal, curated wardrobe in a deeply impersonal world is a road with no destination—despite what the algorithm may tell you. It has several detours, evolving with age, lifestyle and shifting beliefs.

And if you don’t know who you are or what you like, there will be a company that’s eager to tell you.

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How to Find Your Personal Style

Curiosity is the first ingredient to crafting great style. Patience is the second.

Have you ever fallen into the rebrand trap? Those moments where your credit card precedes your self-control, and you’ve spent hundreds of dollars on wardrobe overhaul: sequined tops, cerulean pumps and fur coats that are inauthentic to your personality and lifestyle.

Before you immediately buy what you see on social media or aimlessly peruse retailers, develop a system for scouting your next items. A personal style that is intentional starts with curiosity and a taste for sartorial reform. This is the time to slow down and develop childlike tendencies.

Question everything!

Ask yourself:

• What do I own that makes me feel confident?

• What’s practical?

• Whose style do I appreciate? Why? What about their style speak to me?

• Is there a time period I’d love to indulge in through my wardrobe?

• Is there a way to incorporate my other interests into my clothing?

Here’s an example:

• Baggy jeans, kitten heels, corsets and sneakers are what make me feel most confident. Marrying feminine and masculine attire gives me that unique balance I love.

• I work from home so sweatpants, loose-fitting sets and cozy sweaters are practical for me.

• I adore Naomi Elizée, Solange, Mariah the Scientist and Rihanna for their style. The blend of maximalist patterns, tailoring and archival pieces feels both luxurious and unique to each of their brands.

• Late 90s and early aughts. That Essence Magazine and 106 & Park style of clothing. Bronzed down. Dressed up.

• I can pair these Chinese slippers-inspired kitten heels with baggy jeans to give my going-out look a 2000s refresh.

Try incorporating the culture, art and music you enjoy into your style.

Love the bedazzled corsets on Sabrina Carpenter? Implement a simpler version into your nightlife glam. Enjoy the billowy style of Olivia Dean? Try a satin skirt with your next lunchtime outfit.

When you base your wardrobe around your interests in and outside of the closet, a general idea of what to wear can form.

So you’ve let your curiosity unfurl and curated a collection of interests. In other words, you’ve made a Pinterest board and you’re ready to replicate outfits based on those Pins. Wait.

Instead of buying new products on a whim, collect the images you like the most and note what’s prevalent. Cederick Campbell, a Detroit-based style expert, has a great video on this method. If you wanna go full analog, grab a poster board, a printer and some sticky notes for this method.

@cederickcampbellHow to build your dream wardrobe using @canva

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Are you constantly noting how much you love tabi shoes? Is leopard print a pattern you include frequently? Once you’ve recognized the patterns or recurring themes in your moodboard, add those items to your wishlist.

Now, it’s time to shop.

Another reason why your current wardrobe might feel so impersonal is because you’re only shopping for special occasions. Think little black dresses or that fiery red blazer you’ve been dying to wear but “haven’t found the right event yet.”

Shopping for these imagined events is fine in moderation but can become disorienting when you have dozens of statement pieces but nothing to wear. You need staples and clothes that suit your lifestyle. Not the one you’re dreaming about.

I like to shop on a 5:2 ratio—five idealistic pieces to two imagined pieces, always maintaining a balance of what’s real and what can be created.

Going back to my work-from-home lifestyle, I wear sweats, plain t-shirts, hoodies and cozy sets. On special occasions, I like to pop out in a pair of platform wedges, a corset and statement jeans. Shopping for a capsule wardrobe, basic items that work with almost any outfit, helps build a style that’s suited for your real life.

Full transparency, I enjoy shopping at H&M, ASOS, Fashion Nova and local thrift stores for these pieces.

You must actually wear clothes to see if you like them or not.

What fits a Fashion Nova model might not fit you, and oftentimes it takes trial and error determines that. There’s a sense of humility that comes with this, I know.

Let me be the first to say you don’t need an ultra-curated style that’s social media optimized. I’ve had several outfits that make me cringe, but at the moment, I enjoyed wearing them. But it took me experimenting to learn that.

I also encourage in-person shopping when you can and dedicating a couple days throughout the year to trying on clothes in a store, slowly and intentionally. Look at the cut of jeans. Examine the hemming of your shirts. Walk in a pair of heels.

If possible, bring someone with you who understands your style, needs and body type to give feedback.

Resources to Curate a Personal Style

It can be hard to find resources that connect to your style. The good news is that there’s a wealth of information out there. Here’s a mini guide into how I scout finds for my wardrobe.

• Pinterest—my sanctuary and where I curate my style inspo.

• Physical Media—great for reading up on style trends from the past and present. My recs: Wear It Well by Allison Bornstein, The Chiffon Trenches: A Memoir by André Leon Talley, Essence Magazine archives, Vogue archives—not physical but great for people who don’t have access.

• TV Shows—art imitates life and vice versa. My recs: Sex & the City, Half & Half, Living Single, Insecure, Girlfriends and Michiko & Hatchin.

• Youtube—nothing like longform content to help my attention span. My recs: iconicallyiconic for style breakdowns of fictional characters and eras, ITSCAROLYNGRAY for fashion vlogs, Sydney Marie for fashion finds and trend reports and Jada for style analysis.

• Reddit—a little odd but it’s how I get honest opinions about brands and tips about fashion. My recs: Female Fashion Advice and Petite Fashion Advice.

Style is curated, reformed and enhanced throughout life. There is not one uniform process to do things. Great things take time, attention to detail and attention to quality. They require a sense of purpose that isn’t always identifiable through social media.

What my grandfather said about sermons, I’ve found, is a guiding principle on advice in general. It’s like a salad; you take what’s fitting and leave the rest. This means you can take the advice I’ve given completely, partially or not at all. That’s the beauty in developing a personal style that feels personal.

It’s up to you.

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If 2026 is the year of the horse, then February is the month of the Sean Brown Curves bag.

If you don’t know Sean Brown from his totes, you may have seen his viral CD rugs circulating across social media.

The Toronto-based multidisciplinary artist and creative director of Curves, an expansive homeware and clothing brand, marries minimalist design with Black culture. The result? Distinguishable pieces and unmatched home staples.

On February 9, Brown restocked his knit tote bags. It sold out within minutes.

Curves bags have been popular among digital spaces for a while, but the notoriety it built this month feels like a precursor to the global popularity that awaits.

I’m also seeing similarities between the Curves tote and the Telfar shopping bag. The virality, the frequent out-of-stock cycles and the think pieces about why these totes are or aren’t the next best thing in shopping.

Owning one may be the next symbol of cultural cachet for younger consumers—much like the Telfars were and still are.

The Curves tote bag craze isn’t a cult, (though the headline does sound nice phonetically) but there is something to be said about the cult of shopping. It’s a system that influences what we buy and how we engage with culture through our spending habits.

Myself included.

In the age of fast-fashion and even faster waste buildup, buying items is as important as wearing them consistently. We’re building lifelong wardrobes not cycling through fads, after all.

Of course, you can seamlessly tack the Curves bag to a go-see look, but springtime warrants eccentric styles, vibrant colors and cozy textures. So if you’ve fiended off thousands of hopeful Curves owners, congratulations. Now let’s see how to wear it for more than one occasion.

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The beauty in the Curves tote bag lies within its versatility. You can make this bag the nucleus of your outfit or a supporting staple. For a beach day, choose the latter. B Fyne’s swimsuits are like art for the body. Complement it with complementary colors.

What to Wear to the Beach:

Bikini: Caya One Piece, $210 $189

Bag: Curves Knit Tote Bag (Sapphire), $60

Jeans: Cotton On 91 Wide Jeans, $40 $20

Sandals: Tory Burch Kira Sport Sandals, $298 $149

Picnic days are approaching. That means warmer weather and an extra hour of sunset. Spring babies are in full bloom.

When the equinox approaches, I become a sucker for corsets, color and all things big, including baggy shorts and chunky wedges. Go big or go home.

What to Wear to a Picnic:

Corset: Dealmore Corset, $41 $28

Shorts: Kut From the Kloth Mandy Bermuda Shorts, $119 $89

Wedges: Melissa Free Platform Thongs, $99

Bag: Curves Knit Tote Bag (Raspberry), $60

Since traveling through a government shutdown, I’ve prioritized what I can control: style, punctuality and comfort. And there’s nothing more satisfying than having your bags checked and a light carry-on.

Packing cubes, comfortable slippers and a lightweight tote bag is the name of the game now.

What to Wear to the Airport:

Top: Uniqlo Oversized Sweatshirt, $50

Bottoms: Uniqlo Straight Sweatpants, $50

Bag: Curves Knit Tote Bag (Chocolate), $60

Hat: Favorite Daughter Baseball Cap, $47

Shoes: Crocs Classic Cozzzy Slippers, $50

For historically Black colleges and universities, style is a vehicle for personal expression and students are tastemakers for what’s cool. Still, don’t let “fashion show” allegations deter you from the truth: on any given day, expect to see the casual sweats and tote bag combo.

This is the revamped version.

What to Wear to Campus:

Sweater: John & Jenn by Line Maddy Pullover, $135 $37

Jeans: True Religion Bailey Mid Rise Barrel Jeans, $164 $115

Bag: Curves Knit Tote Bag (Lemongrass), $60

Sneakers: Nike Low Retro Dunks, $115 $58

Water Bottle: Thyme & Table 26 oz Water Bottle, $13

The first month of TTS has been quiet yet fulfilling. I’ve been slowly building this platform and it’s one of the things that makes me feel at home with myself. As we enter our second month, I’d love to know what’s on your top shelf—the thing that is an instant and consistent buy for you.

For me, it’s the Curves tote bag. I’m patiently waiting for a restock. If you are too, you can subscribe to Sean Brown to get updates.

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The televised theatrics of the early aughts remain a steady fixation in my mind.

Flavor of Love? My most-binged show. Bad Girls Club? A Tuesday night fixture. But America’s Next Top Model, a reality television-based competition series, served me a delectably chaotic slice of the modeling world.

As a child, the mix of eccentric personalities in front of the panel and the wild requests coming from behind it had me yearning for a spot as a contestant. Only the Tyra Banks could have models participate in humiliation rituals in the name of high fashion and a contract.

It’s since aged horribly, though.

Now, imagine my surprise when I learned that TikTok just discovered go-sees… about eight months ago. Though fashionably late to the go-see outfit trend, The Top Shelf is my newsletter, not a 24-hour publication. So let me reminisce!

@nicsfl1cshere’s what a go see outfit is because it seems to be circulating around tiktok right now. if you don’t know what to wear put on your go see fit i guess LMAO #fashion #gosee #goseeoutfit #modeloffdutylooks #fashioninspo #styleinspo

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A “go-see” is an in-person meeting where models connect with agencies, photographers and designers. Like an introduction before booking a shoot.

It was an insider term used in the modeling world, then popularized by ANTM.

Banks, in her true fashion, converted go-sees into full-blown challenges, making contestants scurry to several meetings across the city within a fixed time. Still, through chaotic taxi rides and flustered reactions, the models’ outfits were always understated, timeless and relatively practical for gallivanting around Manhattan.

During go-sees, models were a blank canvas for clients. Think minimal makeup, simple clothing and slick back hairdos.

And in an era of McBling and Y2K futurism, elevated basics translated beautifully on screen, then and especially now. Mainly because the “go-see outfit” is an easily replicable recipe: a black shirt, skinny jeans, a shoulder bag and heels.

Having a customized go-see outfit (for in and outside of work) is the perfect crutch when digging through your closet yields no results. Personally, the kitten heel and jeans combo has saved me from much peril.

You may not be a contestant on one of the most iconic shows of the 2000s, but it’s possible, and incredibly easy, to use on-duty model looks as a style template that complements your daily life.

Here’s how to create your own go-see outfits.

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My quintessential outfit for grocery store runs and impromptu T.J. Maxx visits goes beyond black shirts and skinny jeans; the real fun is in the accessories.

Pairing comfortably light shoes (which are still on my wishlist) with the Hulken Rolling Tote Bags—for those long-haul grocery visits—ensures you’re ready for what’s on and beyond aisle eight.

Top: ASOS DESIGN Soft Longline Long Sleeve Tee, $15

Jeans: Levi’s XL Baggy Straight Jeans, $110 $83

Sneakers: Adidas Japan Shoes, $120

Earrings: H&M Two-Toned Hoop Earrings, $10 $8

Shopping Bag: Hulken® Signature Rolling Tote Bag (Medium), $110

Watch: Pascal Oval Bubble Diamond Watch Gift Set , $275

Earbuds: Apple Earbuds, $19 $16

Before buying something new for a date, go for a classic on-duty model look with similar items in your closet.

Nothing says effortlessly chic like a pair of kitten heels and low rise jeans, but the extra flair comes from BP Jewelry’s bracelet stack and a funky-printed bag to accent this not-so-subtly blue ensemble.

For a perfect pout, I’ll be topping this off with the Juvia’s Place Luxe Lip Liner in Brownie and Maybelline’s Lifter Plump Lip Plumping Gloss in “Blush Blaze.”

Tank Top: Gap Modern Tank Top, $20 $11

Jeans: Reformation Greta Low Rise Wide Leg Jeans, $178

Heels: Steve Madden Alexi Denim Multi Studs, $110 $80

Shoulder Bag: Steve Madden Lohan Bag Brown Print, $78

Earrings: PAVOI 14K Gold Plated Teardrop Hoop Earrings, $14

Bracelet Set: BP Jewelry 3 Set Jumbo Gold Bangle Set, $55

If an outfit isn’t interesting in color, it can be interesting in print and texture. Insert Akira’s wedge booties and JW Pei’s tote bag.

For an office-lifestyle, let your go-see outfit include a tote for laptops, planners and the numerable Post-its you have stacked together. Instead of heels or sneakers, a statement bootie brings a sense of panache to the workplace.

Want to tone it down? Return to a subtle staple like the Puma Speedcat shoes.

Blazer: Zara Lapel-Free Cropped Blazer, $80 $16

Shirt: Uniqlo Soft Ribbed T-Shirt, $25

Pants: Fashion Nova Cooler Than You Barrel Leg Pants, $35 $21

Bag: JW Pei Hana Medium Tote Bag, $139

Boots: Azalea Wang Vinci Zebra Print Wedge Bootie, $90

Watch: Michael Kors One Size Watch, $65

Espressos go with almost anything—including large tote bags and leather flats. For the frequent coffee shop patron, swap your sweats for a pair of loose-fitting lounge pants. Days spent at the cafe also calls for shopper bags and blue-light blocking glasses.

This is specifically for the late night studiers, the bloggers and the thesis writers. I see you.

Top: Gap Linen-Blend Strapless Corset Crop Top, $50 $20

Pants: Old Navy High-Waisted Wide-Leg Pants, $40 $30

Flats: Steve Madden Lydia Black Leather Flats, $100 $75

Bag: Telfar x Eastpak Medium Shopper Bag, $180

Earrings: Open Edit Pop Top Huggie Earrings, $30 $18

Glasses: Slocyclub Square Blue Light Blocking Glasses, $9

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Last year, if you asked me which Sex and the City character I was, I would’ve said I was Carrie: messy with romance, profligate with spending and navigating this decade of life with an endearing sense of wit and awkwardness.

Expensive heels and credit card bills abound!

Yet, in the age of gray-area romances and a nightmarish economy, I’ve discovered there’s something deliciously appealing in being a single woman who’s confident in that status. No situationships. No “Big is moving to Paris” moments.

There’s a growing trend in being paramour-free, too.

Among Americans aged 25-34, the proportion living without a spouse or partner has doubled in five decades, to 50% for men and 41% for women.

The rise of singlehood is reshaping the world, The Economist

On the other side of that messy Carrie Bradshaw type of love, there are the Mirandas of the world. The analytical lovers, the skeptical romantics and most importantly, those in love with life outside of relationships.

Statistically and anecdotally, it’s no longer taboo to be alone. For that reason, I’m proclaiming myself as Miranda now, indulging in life as it is.

To be loved intimately by someone is an unparalleled pleasure, but I’d be lying if I said there are way better things than a gift from the heart—specifically your own. Seriously, who knows you better than you?

Ditch your Mr. Big, and get yourself something for Valentine’s Day instead.

No strings attached.

Slocyclub Square Blue Light Blocking Glasses

If you’re like me and currently cozying up with a steamy romance novel—hello Sweet Heat—then you’ve felt the sting of strained eyes from e-reading.

These blue light blocking glasses are a personal favorite to remedy that problem.

I feel like a character in A Different World: studious, grounded and effortlessly stylish. They’re an essential blend of that 90s intellectual aesthetic mixed with comfort.

Amazon Kindle Paperwhite

With a Kindle, there’s no excuse for not completing your reading list this year.

The paperwhite is best for at-home readers who want less social media distractions and more quality time nuzzled in a book. They’re also easier on your eyes since blue light is less of an issue. (If you enjoy reading while traveling, the basic Kindle is ideal for commute-style reads since it’s smaller.)

With the average book holding one megabyte of storage, the paperwhite’s 16 gigabytes give you an abundance of space to read whatever’s next on your wishlist.

Anjali Perfumes Chai Chai Chai

Gourmand girls rise: Anjali Perfumes, an independent perfumery based in Washington, just restocked their latest perfume. With notes of cookies, cardamom, sugar and soft musk, it’ll top off your winter body care combo decadently.

Even better: Anjali Perfumes will be donating 10% of profits this February to the Center for Constitutional Rights.

HigherDOSE Serotonin Soak

Ditch the Lush bombs this season and opt for bath soaks instead.

HigherDOSE has been a name circulating through the wellness industry for a while, so it’s no surprise their soaks are loved. It’s more than just epsom salt, though; reviewers say it increases serotonin production and lowers cortisol levels—the hormones influencing happiness and stress, respectively.

For $40, it’s a splurge, but it’s worth it for a new bathtime ritual.

Crate & Barrel Nattie Red Wine Glass

Looking to channel your inner Olivia Pope? This is a no-brainer purchase.

It’s a kitchen staple, but if you’re feeling sumptuous, personalize it (with just three characters only) for $15 extra.

Secura Electric Wine Opener

I’m not afraid to admit I love wine but struggle to open my own bottles. An electric wine opener is—of course—extra but shortens the process of opening my Sauvignon Blanc. Or for you, your drink of choice.

Anya Lust Iris Satin Sleep Set

Lingerie is only for a man you.

Anya Lust, a Black-owned lingerie brand, is an underrated staple for chic but inexpensive nightwear. This set, a babydoll and a g-string, only comes in midnight blue. Fortunately, the brand has different sets in red, black and baby pink for wear.

Bedsure GentleSoft® Blanket

Another six weeks of winter means extra large, extra soft blankets are a must.

I’m spending that time cozied up with a Bedsure blanket, buttered popcorn and a side of trash reality TV. What are you doing?

Love day is approaching, but this season undoubtedly feels different. Times feel very loveless and desolate lately, and I’d be remiss if I wrote about shopping without sharing how to also use your money as a resource to support others in need.

If you spend your well-earned dollars showing a little love to yourself, consider also donating to charities, food programs and justice centers advocating for those less fortunate.

I pray this Valentine’s Day is a reprieve for you, and may the love you show yourself be extended to your family and community.

If you’re in a relationship, what are your V-Day plans? If you’re single, what plans do you have?

I’d love to have some ideas.

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To know me, a child of Ebony Magazines and the Bratz doll franchise, is to know something like this isn’t a surprise. Yes, I’m starting another newsletter, but this one feels a bit different.

The Top Shelf is a shopping platform dedicated to discovering the most underrated beauty, skincare and style finds—plus a few of the fan faves. Think of me as your shopping-obsessed friend, dropping the latest sales and Sephora picks in the group chat each week.

This newsletter is dedicated to the self-indulgent: the people who prioritize play just as much as work and spend hours turning mood boards into a curated reality. My goal is to help you enjoy the pursuit of shopping while still cutting through the consumerist social media bullsh*t.

There’s power in being a strategic shopper.

This idea has been floating in my head since I began freelancing at Vogue, (WTF!) sifting through countless shopping stories and newsletters. From Alaïa Le Teckel bags to Staud jeans, the world of high fashion is a luxury I admire. But with a wallet as small as my waist, I can’t always afford what the boujee babes are buying.

And I’m not alone.

That’s why I’m sharing pieces that suit my life: a twenty-something trying to find herself with a limited budget.

If you’re not familiar with me from my college blog Makenna’s Meditation or my post-grad venture Mixxed, hi, I’m Makenna.

I spent four years creating content while pursuing my bachelor’s degree in journalism, and another two developing a love for fashion, gastronomy and travel while working for Condé Nast. In other words, I prioritize facts and media literacy above EVERYTHING.

Now, I’m an aficionado in all things culture and shopping.

You can find me being my friend group’s photo archivist, a pop-culture specialist and a reality TV junkie. I’m currently binging season four of Traitors US and The Real Housewives of Potomac, so hit me up if you’re also obsessed with Stacey Rusch and campy shows set in Scotland.

Beyond that, I love examining how shopping trends don’t just influence what’s in your digital cart but how they reflect the current cultural zeitgeist.

It’s another reason why my words are gracing your screens.

My shopping cart is a mirror into my obsessions, lifestyle and what I believe belongs at the top shelf, my proverbial wishlist of things that may or may not make me feel a little whole. Campy heels, indulgent candles, coffee table books for my dream apartment overlooking the Hudson River. All that stuff.

Knowing me—which you will on TTS—is knowing what I want and why I want it. From handbags to lip balms that satiate my gloss fixation, here’s a peek into what I’ve been coveting lately.

Summer Fridays Tinted Lip Butter Balm — $24

I spent my last few bucks in college buying this and Sol de Janeiro’s Brazilian Crush 40, and I haven’t stopped thinking about it since. It’s velvety, long-lasting and unfortunately worth the price tag.

Patrick Kelly’s Runway of Love — $45 $13

A perk of having cultured friends is learning their style obsessions. Patrick Kelly is the obsession.

Kelly, a Black-American designer, used racial imagery like the golliwog in his clothing to make timeless designs. His clothing, famously adorned with buttons, has a certain whimsy that felt ironic yet playful in the cultural backdrop of the 80s and 90s.

Eclecticism, gaiety and nostalgia marry in his designs, so it’s a no-brainer that this book is high on my wishlist.

Adidas Japan Shoes — $130

Last year, one of the best pieces of style advice I took was to dress for my actual life, not my ideal one. As much as I would love to sport Carrie Bradshaw-style kitten heels to Trader Joe’s, I love a comfy shoe that’s both practical but stylish enough to stand out on aisle six.

Steve Madden Anise Bag — $129 $90

The Anise bag is the Le Teckel bag’s little sister: similarly stylish and more attainable. That’s reason enough for me to want it in every color.

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